Last weekend Kitaki got to play host to a wedding of two wonderful alumni who met at camp and have chosen to spend their lives together. While the weather wasn’t ideal, everything else about the day was. Having had a chance to warm up, dry off and reflect on the experience of a “camp” wedding it reminded me of a few wonderful things about Kitaki.
- When a large group of people have been taught how to do all sorts of line dances, and how to encourage those who are hesitant to dance, it makes for one happening dance floor.
- Those who have lived in the small community of camp, where everyone’s efforts affect everyone else, know how to pitch in. Like when an outdoor wedding needs to be moved indoors at the last minute.
- There is a difference between “Perfect” and “Perfect”. Many people will tell you that perfect means the same as flawless. At camp, “perfect” often comes about because of, and in spite of, flaws. Our perfect is a little different. Like when everyone starts crying while singing the camp song, and so the ending sort of falls apart. Speaking of crying…
- There is no shame in tears. Tears are simply signs of the occurance something significant manifested physically. Hiding tears can be hiding from the significance itself. Letting them show helps to experience the meaning of the event and to bond with the friends surrounding you.
- Friends are Friends Forever. Although the miles that separate may be many, and the times spent together may be few and far between, a camp friend has seen you at your best, and at your worst. Through that roller coaster of experience there are memories that are shared only by a select few. Those connections stand the tests of time. It is always humbling to see what camp means in the lives of the people who have lived it.
Thanks to the bride and the groom for sharing their day with us at camp, and to all who made the day special. If it’s been a while since you have spoken to one of your camp forever friends, reach out and share some memories.
Hope to see you on June 3rd at the First Campfire event.
Sincerely, Jason